Diana,

I’m an idiot.  I was at a bar a couple of weeks ago when I met a man.  He and I started talking and exchanged numbers.  He asked me to dinner.  We had a great time but during the course of the night he tells me he is married; not separated or getting a divorce plain old married.  He said that he isn’t happy and he thinks he could be happy with me.  I never dated a married man.  The whole thing makes me sick.  What should I do?

Cynthia

Hi Cynthia,

Your gut is telling you to get away fast!  Listen to your instinct.  You don’t know this guy at all and you owe him nothing.  To continue a relationship with a married, sketchy man will only result in heartache.  You have the opportunity to get away quickly and without drama.  I would tell the man that you do not date married man.  Ask that he delete your number and never call you again.  If you entice him, you will be hurting yourself and his wife.  If I were a betting woman, you are not the only woman he is courting.

Dude’s a dog.

Move along sista!

Best,
Diana